..Lifestyle With Aenna Ejiya

Have you ever wondered why you have great ideas, great prepared plans, detailed schedule and ended up not doing things at all? Unconsciously, you want to perfect everything. You scrap all ideas you have because you think something is not right yet. Or you might think that it was not worth sharing because all you see is it's imperfections. Well I tell you what. Nothing is perfect. The only perfect timing is God's timing. There is no such thing as perfect plan. We are mislead by the thought that we have to perfect everything to get started to what we are about to do. We wasted days, weeks and months before we actually do it, or sometimes not do it at all. We are too afraid that it might end up a mess. But what we actually messed up is the time and opportunity to share what we have to this world. We over think too much if we should go for it or not. We over analyze facts and too afraid to be criticized. We even question ourselves if we are really ready for it. If it is worth it

I experienced a lot in life and my journey is a huge bumpy road. I experienced a lot of disappointments in life. Sometimes I feel so happy, sometimes I feel so sad and it is terrible because life, as a human being, is so unpredictable. We cannot

We view happiness as something that we can achieve if we did something first. Basically most people view happiness as a reward. But the truth is happiness is just like the air we breath. It is freely given to us and can be felt no matter what situation we are in. Being unhappy doesn't always necessarily mean being sad, sometimes it is feeling nothing. Happiness is most appreciated when we tend to live in the moment. Exactly at this very moment. Remember the time when you felt most happy? Notice that it is mostly felt when you are currently embracing that moment. Just like winning in a marathon, you feel happy because you are in the present. You hear that sound, you felt that wind, you weren't thinking of the past, nor worry the future. You indulge in the current situation. Or like being with the person you love while having dinner or just talking and sharing stories to each other. You are present and embracing that moment. That exactly is what happiness means. I believe it

What I have noticed is that success begins within ourselves. Once we realize how important self-love is, we will become more aware of what is true about ourselves and be confident on our own skin. Stop hating yourself. You only have YOU. Being negative about yourself will only make you feel down. It won't help you in any way. Be cautious of the words coming out your mouth when you are describing yourself. Because what you say about yourself will later manifest in your life. 90% of what you think you are, is how people will see you. If you believe you are a failure, you'll attract more failures in your life. If you say you're no good, you'll eventually see your self in the corner doing nothing. Things like this in your mind will affect your progress in life. So be more careful about judging yourself. Remember, what you believe you are is what you will become. Be your own best friend. This strategy helped me a lot along my journey. Whenever I was feeling down, I would co

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In my own experience, I liked being called weird at some point. Why? Because at least I know I am unique and different from others. And it's OK. That's what makes us "individual" in the first place. What's the point of trying to fit in if it will only cause limitations of your own potential. You have greatness in you. It is inside of you. And you know it. You're just afraid of showing it off because we're living in a world of criticism. And most of us are afraid to be criticized. You think that people will hate you or misunderstand your or even call you weird. We do not need people like that in our lives. You don't need to prove them anything, they don't deserve that. You need to prove it to yourself. So let it out. The world needs it. Most "weird" people are those

What is "1% Rule"? How it will actually change your life? Have you ever heard the "1% Rule" that can actually change your life? Only few people apply this secret formula to be successful in life. It is an effective formula that no one will tell you about because most us doesn't know about it. If you want to know the secret of success, this 1% rule is the answer. The 1% Rules simple means doing progressive actions towards your goal everyday, consistently! To achieve what you want, it doesn't necessarily mean to do everything at once. The effective way to achieve your goal is to do it everyday! The 1% rules teaches us to

It is normal that most of us are in a situation where our family members are the one's sucking out our positivity in life. We love them and they're so important to us. Surely we only want the best for them. But in some cases, they also become the people who puts a lot of negativity in our lives. Some of many people I know asks me how to deal with it especially when you have a goals to reach and you can't focus. It is stressful and ain't getting you further in life. So what is the best thing to do? This topic so complicated and we can

I was inspired by Cambria Joy, a blogger/YouTuber, to also share my thoughts and how I became the person I think I should be. Many years of my life I've been so busy doing things I thought I want. When I was a student, I should study well and get good grades. I should pass my exams and collect medals or something. I should prove to others or to myself that I am better, or competitive than ever. I thought I should graduate. And so I graduated college. Then after that, life became